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Introduction
Champions the client.
The more often, and deeply, the
coach champions their client at all levels (including their actions,
progress, dreams, traits, commitments, gifts and qualities), the more
encouraged the client feels and the more likely they are to succeed.
For the coach to merely be encouraging is not enough; there is a much
higher level of support generated when the coach operates at the
championing level, which is where the Certified Coach operates.
The Purpose of This Learning
Guide
1. To explain the Proficiency.
2. To show how mastering this Proficiency makes you a better coach.
3. To provide key resources to assist you in mastering this Proficiency.
What the instructor covers in
this TeleClass
1. How to champion the client.
2. The difference between cheerleading and championing.
3. Three ways of championing the client.
4. A demonstration of each of the three ways of championing the
client.
What does it mean to Champion the
Client?
1. Champion vs. Cheerleading
Cheerleading for the client implies revving them up, jumping up and
down when the energy isn't there for them. When the coach cheerleads, s/he
takes responsibility for the success of the client. Championing the client
is a grounded acknowledgement of their achievements - as they define them.
It is a genuine act.
2. You really feel it.
In order to be a true Champion for your client, you have to really
believe what you are saying and feeling, not making it up in an attempt to
convince them they should be proud.
3. The client champions themselves.
We actually could have named this proficiency "teaching the
client to champion themselves". What you are really doing when you
use this proficiency is drawing their own championing skills out, so that
it is internally references. Then you can provide additional validation
through your own response.
4. Champion at all levels.
Don't just focus on what they actually did (or did not do). Include
their dreams, traits, commitments, follow-through, qualities, service to
others, feelings, insights, and profound moments, as well as their actions
and progress.
What are some general truths
about championing the client?
1. Adults need as much support as
kids do.
2. Client's growth is solidified when they are championed appropriately.
3. Championing is a natural part of the coaching process.

Identify the significance.
Identify the underlying shift or growth that has occurred. Help the
client understand the long-term value and meaning of the shift.
Make sure that you...
Don't ask for the new step too quickly. Be sure to congratulate the
client and that they believe you.
Share your...
Willingness to help, your excitement, and your awe at their
accomplishments.
What can the client expect?
To shift from entropy, doubting,
and feeling disconnected, to feeling energized, integrated and confident.
(You will, too!)
What are ways to champion
the client?

Be excited about their progress.
It is important to match their tone
and emotion when sharing your excitement. That doesn't mean you come all
the way down if they are feeling low, but it does mean to match the
emotion without matching the intensity of it.
Point to the underlying shifts or growths the client has made.
Often clients are not aware of the steps they have taken or the
progress they have made. As the coach you provide a bigger perspective
because you aren't caught up in their daily activities.
Be awed by their willingness.
Allow yourself to feel awed. Clients really do make amazing shifts,
and they are remarkably trusting and willing with us.
What are some strategies you can
use to champion the client?
1. Look for the deeper emotion from the
client.
The client will give you direct
clues to what they are most excited about or proud of. Listen for the
richness in their tone, the energy in their voice, and the words they use.
2. Be curious and excited.
When the coach is genuinely curious and excited, the client gets it.
S/he feels heard, understood, and supported.
3. Match their emotion, tone, and feeling.
Your goal is to use this proficiency to connect with the client and
encourage and empower them to feel this within themselves. Matching their
emotions and tone, at least at first, will make you more believable, and
won't pressure them to agree with you.
4. Look for the greater truth.
The client will give you direct clues to what they are most excited
about or proud of. Listen for the richness in their tone, the energy in
their voice, and the words they use.
2. Be curious and excited.
When the coach is genuinely curious and excited, the client gets it.
S/he feels heard, understood, and supported.
3. Match their emotion, tone, and feeling.
Your goal is to use this proficiency to connect with the client and
encourage and empower them to feel this within themselves. Matching their
emotions and tone, at least at first, will make you more believable, and
won't pressure them to agree with you.
4. Look for the greater truth.
When the client realizes what they are proud of, there is often a
greater truth that underlies it. Look for the greater scheme in life for
them. It's a way to give the person a total understanding of how it was
evolutionary for them.
5. Ask THEM.
Your goal is to get them to
champion for themselves, so before you tell them how great you think they
are, ask them what they are proud of about X or how it represents a
significant shift to them.
6. Get comfortable with silence.
If silence makes you uncomfortable, you will have a tendency to talk
without drawing the championing from within the client. You'll notice that
when you let there be silence, the client will feel the need to start
talking, and often this is when you get to the real truth.
Why is this a Proficiency?
1. Requires a keen self-awareness and
awareness of the Client.
The ability to champion the client
requires a keen self-awareness and an awareness of the client, so that you
will know when you are cheerleading and when you are championing. You also
need to remember things the client may have forgotten. This ability to let
go of needing the client to succeed, or to feel successful, is an advanced
coaching skill.
2. Requires being so genuine that "performance" is not even
present.
To champion effectively, so that it will "stick", the coach
must do this in a genuine way, You must not jump into telling or solution
mode. Championing means having faith in the process of coaching, truly
being excited for your client, and knowing that it is valuable in it's own
right. The performance-oriented coach will sound like they are acting -
because they are. The Certified Coach is one who has moved beyond the
beginner level where there is great concern about adding value and
performing.
What are the benefits of
championing the client?
1. Sets the client up for
success.
By assisting the client in remembering their progress on all levels,
you support them to value themselves and be able to make additional shifts
when appropriate. It enhances their self-perception via internal and
external references, which builds the muscle for dealing with future
adversity. They feel heard and encouraged - and the more encouraged they
feel the more likely they are to succeed.
2. The client does most of the
work.
You get to host the celebration party by asking questions to elicit
their learnings and progress. When you let them do most of the work, that
gives you plenty of room to champion for them.
3. You have more fun!
It feels good to encourage your client, and when you feel good about
it, you are genuinely enjoying your client, relaxed in your coaching, and
practicing all of the proficiencies of an advanced coach.
How do you know if you're getting
it?
1.You feel excited for your clients
and enjoy talking with them.
2. You recognize the clients patterns of success.
3. You appreciate the perfection in everything.
4. The client is inspired by their results.
5. The client is building on their successes.
6. The client becomes a believer again.
What are some common mistakes
when using this Proficiency?
1. Puffing up the client.
When you are too urgent to make them believe how great they are, it
can come across as awkward or as pressure.
2. Championing before you listen.
Make sure you understand what's going on for the client, otherwise you
might be championing something that's only going on in your mind.
3. Self-referencing.
Yes, you have lots of things to champion over, too, but this is not
the time. Make it all about them.
4. Not matching their intensity level.
Usually this is indicative of cheerleading, but it could also present
as not being as excited as the client.
5. Not prompting them to acknowledge themselves.
Don't try to convince them. Ask questions to draw out their own
championing opportunities. These will stick longer, and give you stories
and information you can draw on in later coaching sessions with them.
Resources
15 Proficiencies | here
The 3 Generators of Client Value | here
The 5-Element CoachVille Coaching System | here
Certified Coach Training Resources | here
The Orb/Graphic
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Twelve Ways to Champion the Client | view
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Are there success
stories/testimonials related to Championing the Client?
got
one?
"Many coaches seek to motivate their clients by trying to communicate
their own personal vision of how a project should be completed. Nina
East has the unique gift of inspiring individuals by tying their own
values and visions in with the accomplishment of a goal. Most importantly,
though, Nina holds others accountable so that they are not tempted to fall
short of their own potential."
----Kinneil Coltman
Class Notes
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