Conflicting intentions = Problems in Your Life
Have you ever had a thought like this one: “Why is it that even when I know what to do, sometimes I just don’t do it?” Or maybe you’ve been discouraged because you had a goal or a plan, you tried hard and it just didn’t happen.

What you have experienced is the greatest drain of human energy: conflicting intentions.

Conflicting intentions - intentions that are unspoken and often unseen - are caused by conditioning from your past.  Conditioning that causes you to try to be something that you are not and believe things that are not true for you. The intentions that come out of this conditioning are typically in conflict with what you really want in your life.

Absence of You = The Absence of Conflicting Intentions
Our conditioning manifests in each of us as categories of behaviors that we call The Core Dynamics of Common Problems^TM.

If you’ve ever had a personal problem that you just couldn’t solve, or an issue with someone that you couldn’t resolve you may have wondered: “What is REALLY going on here?”  The answer to that question lies in these core dynamics.  (Core dynamic means the energy at the center)

The Core Dynamics of Common Problems

The absence of you = the absence of core dynamics at play in your life

Learning and Using the Knowledge of the Core Dynamics
In the Absence of You seminar we go deeply into each of the 12 Core Dynamics, as well as the theory behind them. You will quickly begin to see that these are at the basis of virtually all human problems. You will learn the types of behaviors that are based on these dynamics. Then you will learn how to identify them and begin to “absence” them from your life and the lives of your clients

Lots of Live Demos and Practice
During the seminar we will have many live demonstrations so that you can see exactly how these dynamics are operating at the basis of different problems. You will also get to practice identifying them in yourself and your fellow course participants. You will start to see these core dynamics operating everywhere and in everyone. As you become skilled at identifying them and simply pointing them out, you and your clients will begin to stop being stuck on unconscious, default auto pilot.

Wiping Out the Conditioning
At the end of the first day of the seminar you will have an opportunity to see a demonstration of an extraordinary new technique that can wipe out the energy and information of the conditioning that hold the core dynamics in place. It is called debugging and upgrading your Inner Human Software^TM. It has now become as simple as putting the unwanted files in the recycle bin and clicking delete. It is mind blowing! The coaches who have already had this experience are totally enthused about it and finding that it is making a bigger difference in how they create their life than anything they have ever done before!

We rarely relate to reality
Author Peter Senge explains this very well in his introduction to the book Synchronicity by Joe Jaworski.

“Most of us aren’t very good at perceiving reality as it is.  Most of what we “see” is shaped by our impressions, our history, our baggage, our preconceptions.  We can’t see people as they really are because we’re too busy reacting to our own internal experiences of what they evoke in us, so we rarely actually relate to reality.  We mostly relate to internal remembrances of our own history, stimulated and evoked by whatever is externally before us. …

If we could only see reality more as it is, it would become obvious what we need to do.  We wouldn’t be acting out of our own histories, or our own needs, or our own purely reactive interpretations.  We would see what is needed in the moment. We would do exactly what’s required of us, right now, right here.  This is … living one’s life by “participating in the unfolding”.  You can’t do that unless you can actually see what is right before you.”

The Absence of you program is a rigorous, challenging and soul-searching experience.  It is available to anyone, but it is NOT for everyone.

It is a powerful source of understanding about the invisible energies at play in life within and between us.  It is extremely useful for people who coach others; however that is not the focus of this program. The focus of this program is YOU!

*CoachVille is pleased to provide discounts for airfare and car rental to select cities on the CoachVille Conference Tour.  Click here for details...

Interested in learning more about this event?
Join us for a free introductory teleclass:
"How to Get Out of Your Own Way - An Introduction to the 12 Core Dynamics and the Absence of You Training". For more details, and to register, please click here.





Additional Training Option
Participants of the Absence of You training from CoachVille may be interested in considering further training with Absence of You event leader Tom Stone. Tom's own company, Human Software Engineering, offers a 2 day event following the Absence of You Training. This program is called Human Software Engineering for CoachesTM & Debugging the 12 Core Dynamics of Common Problems.

For further details on this event, or to register, click here.

Please note that this additional training is being offered independently by Tom Stone and his company Human Software Engineering. This is not a CoachVille event.

A note from Tom Stone...
"It was my pleasure and honor to know Thomas Leonard for the last few months of his life. We met in November, 2002 at a CoachVille Full Practice Marketing Conference in San Diego where I introduced Thomas to a new field that I am pioneering called Human Software Engineering. Thomas became fascinated with this work and invited me help develop and present both the Advanced Coaching Proficiencies and the Absence of You program for CoachVille. It has been my pleasure to follow through with the development of these programs with Dave Buck and the CoachVille R&D team and to teach these new programs with Dave for the first time in May 2003."


A note from Dave Buck...
"Thomas was so excited about this program and the work he was doing with Tom. During our five year friendship, Thomas gave me so many gifts that I cherish - insights, deep conversations and ultimately I think of my relationship with Tom as Thomas' final gift to me. I'm thrilled to be a part of this work that we are bringing into the world together."

Questions?
Please email rick@coachville.com.